Playing~"Kissing You"-Faith
I was talking to a friend like 3 weeks ago. He felt like it's better for him to be single, because of some of his sexual desires. They like some different stuff sexual and they don't think most people will accept it or be into. Later that day I thought is sex that important? It's so important that someone would choose to be single and enjoy themselves sexually?! How important is sex to you guys? I've been talking to friends for the past weeks about it. One friend said "50 percent" and another said 25%. One friend said "I don't have to like you to have sex with you." I've heard of people staying in some unfavorable situation, because the sex was good. Idunno...what's your thoughts?
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Sex isn't all that important to me. I haven't had it in sooooo long, that going longer without it is nothing too me. LOL!
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Man interesting post, I see you got Faith in heavy rotation...Sex is natural, yet very personal for some. I think sex matters period, wether it's the basics of attraction to another person or just the feeling of gratification (even self gratification) I understand the friend wanting to be single, because you just gotta handle that need to plant your seeds...It's not whorish it's in the genes. Some people prefer longevity relationships that go through many sexual and emotional phases touches and senses that fulfill a person other than having to have an orgasm. Speech aside, personally sex matters to me unless I am dead or can't get it up for the one I __________ (lol)
Sex can be a lot of things. Revelating, mind-blowing, tepid, etc.
I want compatibility. Switch it up a bit and try something new if possible.
I wonder what your friend's into that he thinks no one else would be.
Sex isn't everything, however, it is extremely important to me. At least 70% (20 of that 70 being emotional attachment).
~Damnit!
Sex is an important part of a relationship. I think that without the confines of a relationship there should be sexual freedom - meaning that there are things that shouldn't be off limits - within reason. I typically don't like sex outside of a realationship for this reason; having to have you guard up and limiting the experience. The emotional connection elevates the experience for me.
i personally love sex within a relationship. there is something extremely spiritual and cosmic about being in a sexual engagement with someone, especially some you're in a relationship with. it may not be everything, but i honestly think people down play sex extremely way too much. as if it is not a natural desire and an innate human desire to want sex and be adventurous in all type of sexual situations with your partner. i have never understood why sex is so taboo and looked at and handled with such caution. i'm not saying go out and fuck the world, but if thats your thing be aware of the consequences that can come with that, but there isn't anything wrong with it either.
however i think sex in a relationship is also an extension of the trust in a relationship. especially when the condom comes off and/or birth control ceases or whatever the case may be. there is something powerful, in my opinion, about the rawness of that sex. the vulnerability and nakedness of that sex. the trust that must be established for that to occur.
powerful shit i tell you.
sex is a beautiful thing, no its not everything, but it is a pretty big thing.
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