Tuesday, February 24, 2009

What Happen?

Playing~"my everything"-Monica

It's funny how things change in relationships/friendships. We could talk for hours, but now, we can barely make it 20 mins. Heck, I may not even get a response to a text. He would beg to come over. Even rearrange his whole schedule to be in my presence. I can't clear out enough time for him to see me now. At first, I was indifferent about his affection. Then, I start enjoying the game of it all (~a month into it). About a month later things went left. We talked and things kinda ended. Of course, everyone ask about him. I try to give a solid response, but really I don't know. Honestly, I'm asking myself what happen?

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

I really like you, but the sex is bad

I was visiting a friend and we talked about this person they liked. They enjoyed the person quite a bit, but the guy is bad in bed. " I've tried to teach him, but he's just bad. He's just not fluid with sex. He doesn't know how to move and flow with you". The guy was knocked down a few knotches, because he was bad in bed. It made me think, how important is sex to a relationship? Could sex make or break a relationship? If everything else is in place, could you end a relationship because of bad sex? What would you do in this situation? Also, how important is sex to you in a relationship? The story just made me think

Tuesday, February 10, 2009


Playing~"Emergency room"-Rhianna ft. Mario (oh the irony)

I was hanging out with a group of friends. We talked about some of everything and someone brought up dating (of course). We realized all of us were single. All of us are progressive and fairly attractive men. Everyone claim that it's hard to met a quality guy these days. I thought to myself. I'm sure there a bunch of progressive and fairly attractive men sitting around somewhere saying the same thing. The problem is we can never get these people to meet. Where in the heck are they hiding?

Friday, February 06, 2009

Friends and "friend"

Playing -"midnite"-j. Sullivan
(In the barber shop)

You've met someone and you guys are in the getting to know stage. Of course, this is a touchy stage. You want to spend time with the person and you want to keep your regular routine. Finding that balance is tricky, would you agree? I completely made a mess a month or so ago. I was trying to reassure my best friend that I'm not going to abandon him. In my doing this, things became unbalanced. The dude was confused about where we were going. After about a month things began to get shacky. Has anyone experienced this? How did you handle the balancing act? I definitely see critical moments that damaged a potentially good relationship. I definitely don't think he was the "one" (if that exist). Anyway, give me your feedback

Monday, February 02, 2009

two hearts

What do you do when you have two hearts in your hands? Two people who care about you deeply and both want you exclusively. What do you do? You want both of them, because each person fulfills a certain need. To varying degrees they know about each other. Do you selfishly keep both or do you make a decision to choose one and let the other one go?