Quasi Relationships

Playing~"houtatlantavegas"-JoJo ft. Drake (This chick can really sing)

I'm a constant observer and I'm noticing a lot quasi relationship exist in our community. Nobody is really dating anyone. We "talk" to this one. We went on a date with that one. We chat with this one on Facebook. We "mess" with this one. We really like the other dude. If the truth be told, he is not that into us, but we're cute so he keeps us around. Unfortunately, we're doing the same thing to someone else. All this is going on and we are talking about wanting a commitment filled relationship. Do we really want commitment? Do we really understand what a committed relationship requires/looks like?

I like the ideal and the look of a committed relationship. The reality of it is kinda scary. I don't know if I'm emotionally handicap, still finding my way with dating, or scared (probably a mixture of all three). I find it difficult to get into anyone. Thus, I exert very little energy when dealing with anyone. Consequently, they probably feel the same way and the cycle just continues.

FYI

Playing~"love drug"-Raheem Devaughn

Just for the record, when you meet someone for the first time please avoid these type of comments. Me: So, tell me about yourself. guy: what do you want to know? Me: basic information that an associate would know. guy:I'm 21, single, and lonely me: aahhh...what ashame. I gave him a big hug. He was cute, but the desperation was such a turn off {in my head "Is this boy for real? I can't believe he just said that....pass}. mutual friend: "you wanna talk to him" me: uummhh...no thanks. mutual friend: Why? You're so difficult! me: He's cute, but too young (I really wanted to say, because he has no pride and is really freakin' desperate). Noting his age wasn't a lie...he was a bit too young. mutual friend: Well, I tired.

Sidebar: Where is a good and reasonable price place to get a message in Atlanta?