Playing~"Emergency room"-Rhianna ft. Mario (oh the irony)
I was hanging out with a group of friends. We talked about some of everything and someone brought up dating (of course). We realized all of us were single. All of us are progressive and fairly attractive men. Everyone claim that it's hard to met a quality guy these days. I thought to myself. I'm sure there a bunch of progressive and fairly attractive men sitting around somewhere saying the same thing. The problem is we can never get these people to meet. Where in the heck are they hiding?
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I have no clue then again I may or may not fit into that category, but the men must be out there somewhere, but where?
This is how I see it..... because so many groups of friends have this conversation often, we tend to get anxious and we begin to see a mirage of what we think a good man is. Wasting time with this mirage of a good man can cause us to miss the real thing which throws everyone out of sync. Getting caught up trying to make a temporary moment of passion a permanent partnership can cause you to miss out on a good man.
So tell your friends to take some time off from random dates and allow the universe to catch up with them and sync them with their good man.
Depending on where you are (is it cold outside?) they are in hibernation. Don't worry. As it gets warmer they begin to come out.
If you are in a warm state and you don't see the men then you need to change the places you visit and try some new places. I always ask around for the hot spots.
They aren't hiding. It's just that as we get older we realize that what we thought we wanted was not what we needed. So we let the good ones go...but it's too late.
Well they surely aren't in NJ/NYC... :-( (Present blogger accepted of course...lol)
~Damnit!
they are hiding in the cracks... go get them out...
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