Playing"I think I love you"-Algebra
You have two men (guy x and guy z). X is use to guys being interested in him and eager to sleep with him. Z is indifferent regarding X. At one point, Z was kinda feeling X, but those days are long gone. However, they have develop a pretty good friendship. Z sees X as more of a friend than a potential partner. X still thinks Z is a possible partner, but refuses to express his feeling when Z tries to get him too. Both individuals are stubborn and often there is a power struggle. X strategy is to become rude. Z strategy is to show his indifference. Z is kinda over the whole situation. Especially, after receiving a text from X asking for some 4 play. When Z declines (as expected) S gets disrespectful. Let it go or explain how the behavior has to stop?
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7 comments:
Open verbal communication works best. Just be upfront and forward with it. If one wants to get their freak on and the other wants a relationship then put the cards on the table. Unless the two like playing tug-o-war and wasting time.
I got lost in all of these variables!!! Simple word problems with names would of sufficed!
They need a complete open conversation and let all loose and see how each other feels. If they keep this up, that's not gonna be a healthy relationship!
First, let's get rid of "S" cuz he has nothin' to do with X or Z. LOL...Also, the missing link (Y) may bring X and Z to a place of true friendship and kill all this tension. Have X and Z date other men and cut the shit.
Okay dammm. I thought this post was about me ...all the X's lol. but I think X likes the attention and thats why Z keeps playn into whole cat an mouse shit. Yeah but I agree with Fuzzy & BulletProof...open communication ans also this is a relationship thats not gone really go nowhere especially when u said y'all both stubborn and theres a power struggle. Unless one is willing to compromise shit sounds very shady to me. Yea bring the issue to the forefront ASAP lol. Thanks for posting
I say let it go. What more is there to be said? Neither are stupid so its time to move on.
why be bothered with all that in the first place? they say "sh*t or get off the pot". if you're not best friends or dating, leave well enough alone and spend time with someone else that doesn't bring that nonsense into the equation.
Tell them to put on Keyshia Cole's CD and listen to #1.
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