Playing~"Say It"-rihanna
Deuce, his bf, and myself were having a conversation. Both of them were warning me against having my man around myfriends ( I don't have one). "DON'T HAVE YOUR PIECE AROUND YOUR FRIENDS!" I thought this was a little insecure. Maybe, I'm too confident, but I don't see it. When you experience a good thing you share it. You talk about it. What do you guys think about this? Should you keep your friends away from the person you're dating?
Two ladies who I am enjoying
Michelle Obama
Rihanna
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I'm all for sharing letting other people experience your good thing but the reality is you just can't trust some people. Some guys are so bitter they just don't want to see others happy. Know who is your friend and who is not because everybody ain't.
To love and trust your friends is one thing, while loving and truly knowing your friends is something else. Follow you instincts.
YES!!! Keep them far far away... initially.
After you've dated for a while it's cool to ease them into your friendship circle. Friends that you've known for years will surprise the hell out of you when you start dating someone.
If you have to be afraid of bringing your man around your friends, then either he's not really your man or those are not really your friends!
hmmm, I don't mix my friends with my personal anything and I think I would prefer not to be in the circle of my mates friends it's all good to like do an occaison after we have dated and gotten comnfortable but meeting the crew isn't an option in the early stages of anything. I don't do it.
I definitely agree with Nario. I've learned that it can prove an interesting dilemma, especially if ya'll split up. Ugh!
~Damnit!
If you have to be worried about having your man around your friends, either 1 of two things are incorrect!
1. your man cannot be trusted around people. This is bad because whenever you, he or both of you go out thare is a risk!
2. You need to check your friends. You would have some pretty bad friends that will try to take ya man; whether it be in front of you or behind your back!
Can I throw secret number 3 in there? What are you doing wrong that you have to question whether you can bring something that is yours anywhere?
i'm personally such a private person that my friends rarely know if i am dating someone. & if they do know i am dating someone i keep them at a certain distance in regards to the happenings in my relationship.
now this is all attributed to my lack of trust and my own personal insecurity, but to be honest i even keep my various friends separated and don't even bring them around each other if i can help it. now on the friend tip i am getting better with that, but i think i will keep my relationships separate, simply because i have the philosophy when too many cooks know a recipe than thats when they want to start adding there own ingredients and opinions on how it should be cooked and to be honest when i am in a relationship i am with only one person, not them and my friends or them and theirs.
oh & i have the biggest crush on Michelle Obama right now. there is nothing like a strong black woman! hell there is nothing like an intelligent woman, and she is most definitely both!
I agree with fuzzy.
You know who your crusty friends are as much as you know who your trusty friends are. You need to know if your man is trusty or crusty too.
Some of those trusty friends can getcha
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