Friday, December 07, 2007

life and two lessons learned

Playing~"Stars"-Rahsaan Patterson (Wine and Spirit album)

This girl who I was interested in when I first moved her found me recently and she wanted to reconnect (funny, she didn't when I wanted to). Anyway, I haven't called and today marks a week. A year ago I would have jumped at the opportunity, but now, not so much. I'm a little indifferent and I feel awkward because in the pass few months (~4) I've entertained a few guys (~2). I definitely wouldn't want to mix things. What are your thoughts?

I received a promotion and a raise. The raise was boo boo, so I fought for another...got it. It still is not where I should be, but it's better than what I had.

It's cute when someone who had a slight advantage on you in a friend/relationship and the tables turn. They become more open than you ever were. The bad part is, your pretty much over them by this time...sorry.

No one is neutral in your life. Either they make a deposit or they make a withdrawal

You cannot rewind time. It's sounds simply, but really! You cannot rewind it. So cherish your moments, live in the moment whether it's pain or joy. Don't let the person you like walk pass you one more time without saying anything. You only live once

5 comments:

bLaQ~n~MiLD said...

Hmmmm... well I haven't dated a chick in a minute but I agree that you shouldn't mix. To me, both women and men require too much attention to try and flip between them. Now if you have a genuine interest in the girl, I say go out with her and see where it goes. Ya never know. If you're lazefare (spelling) about the whole thing, I'd say leave it alone.

Congrats on the promotion.

~Damnit!

fuzzy said...

ummm i would advise you to leave the situation with the female alone. You said you have been entertaining two guys for the past two months, maybe you should try to see whats going on with them. I don't know what you are looking for but leave that chick alone lol

Don't pass up a geat opportunity because of a local distraction. Look at what counts the most and what will profit you the most!

WhozHe said...

Uh, wrong person to ask. I'll always tell you to pass on the chick.

life said...

Oh, I'm not entertaining anybody now.

yet another black guy said...

hey if you feel a connection with anyone, woman/man, i say explore it. but if it's because you're not as attracted to women anymore, it's best to leave that avenue alone.

she missed the bus, her loss. someone is else definitely going to gain, though! :D